A friend who passed away.......

On 26/12/08 morning.......I received a phone call....from a friend at USM.....to tell me a surprise news......my friend passed away...due to bone cancer (on his right leg)...for more info....pls...visit

http://www.cancer.org/docroot/CRI/content/CRI_2_4_1X_What_Is_bone_cancer_2.asp

But, I'm not sure...the exact type of cancer he suffered...whether it was Benign bone tumors, Malignant bone tumors, Ewing tumor, Fibrosarcoma, or other types.....

He was a lecturer at UM & we met during a conference in Sydney last year....6-8/12/07. Even, we stayed at the same hotel.....Metro Hotel, Pitt Street, Sydney. We had visited to Sydney's tourist attractions i.e. Sydney Harbours, Sydney Opera House, Victoria Bridge, museum...etc. together.

A very humble and nice guy.....his children.....about my sons age......

The news of his death makes me feel so nervous.....am fully prepared to be "there"?

Al-Fatihah.....

** pic 1: Allahyarham Lukman with Rohana

pic 2: during conference luncheon....with prof Rahmah, prof Idris Jarji, me, Rohana & Allahyarham Lukman

pic 3: Allahyarham Lukman and me....at the Paddy's Market, Sydney

25 December 2008......

25 December 2001.......I still feel the moment.....then....25 December 2008.......
This is the day......my 7th anniversary.......7 magnificent years....and hoping for more significant magnificent years ahead......
Perhaps...these wonderful love quotes described my feelings for my lovely wife...Gee....
"I love you today, yesterday and every tomorrow"
"Each star in the sky symbolizes one reason why I love you."
""I love you by no stretch of your imagination."
"I love you not because of anything you have, but because of something that I feel when I'm near you."

Thank you very much dear.....

Rejected article for publication

This morning....I woke up very early......as I was very happy to hear that my bro safely arrived at his house from Mekah. It was certainly very tiring journey for him and his wife.....congrats tuan haji Rahmad and Hajjah Rodiah....
However, when I checked my email after my Subuh prayers......an email came in......
Actually, I've sent an article for a publication in a journal.....however.....it was rejected professionally due to my naive and inexperience writings..... skills.......it's ok for me...at least I got the reviewer's comments.
I'm eagerly to work harder to ensure all the comments are taking into consideration to strengthen my thesis of course.

Stress & sports: the answer

I have never received comments from readers of my blog.....except from my bro in law's wife, Danash.

However, it seems that my topic......which related to sports activity might stimulate the response....perhaps I'm right....

The questions from L-Shape & Mona-ice.....(I'm sorry.....I don't know whether you're Muslim or not)

The question of "too much" of course......will differ from individual to individual.....

For me.......it would be.....too much....if.....the abdomen area...being exposed excessively....

Particularly, my wife is strongly advised to avoid such outfits.....and she really marvelous as she knows my expectation.....and....put herself restricted to those kinds of outfits......

T&C.....as long as the limitation as required by Muslim fulfils...it's ok for me.....long pants....to cover at least 3-4 inches below the knee...and no abdomen area exposed (from umbilicus to knee must be covered accordingly).....the singlet-type outfit...is strongly not advisable for Muslim....as it may not able to cover umbilicus accordingly..thus exposed the aurat.....

She spent much money to buy all the outfits....and...she makes me proud......as she always meets my expectation.....

However...it cannot be denied that there are a few of her friends to wear something fulfil their styles and wants during the aerobics session........They're pretty enjoyed it I guessed......

It doesn't matter for me at all......I think.....their hubbies/bfs expect them to wear like that.....and feel comfortable with it........but certainly not for me......

But...as I mentioned.....my wife knows the limitation and manages to follow the right things....as advised.......

The pics below....are the examples of aerobics outfits.....

1. Too much...for me of course

2. Ok....

Anonymous said...
....hmmm....aerobics outfits........how much is too much anyway?????-L-shape-
December 9, 2008 7:40 AM
Anonymous said...
hi....what a nice posting...both of you are really love sports....err....don't you want to share your T&C about the outfits????-mona-ice-
December 9, 2008 7:45 AM
Anonymous said...
hi....is it "too much" = sexy????

c

December 9, 2008 6:31 PM

P-Ramlee: Tiga Abdul Movie

Yesterday.....it was raining from dawn till noon....even the korban events took place in the rain....
I watched a classic P.Ramlee movie.....Tiga Abdul...together with my father-in-law....my wife and my 2 sons.....very fascinated...a lot of funs.....
However, when it came to the song entitled "Sedangkan Lidah Lagi Tergigit"......I really enjoyed the lyrics.......what a great song.....nice melody......the rhythm seemed to be so perfect.....
enjoy the lyrics & the video......


Sedangkan lidah lagi tergigit
Apa pula suami isteri
Sedangkan lidah lagi tergigit
Apa pula suami isteri

Buang yang keruh
Ambil yang jernih
Baru teguh peribadi
Buang yang keruh
Ambil yang jernih
Baru teguh peribadi

Apa guna kita bertengkar
Suami isteri harus bersabar
Apa guna kita bertengkar
Suami isteri harus bersabar

Kasih sayang
Rukun dan damai
Hidup seperti dalam mahligai
Buang yang keruh
Ambil yang jernih
Baru teguh peribadi

Suami isteri mesti berpakat
Rumahtangga mendapat berkat
Suami isteri mesti berpakat
Rumahtangga mendapat berkat
Apa guna selisih paham
Kalau ingin aman tenteram
Mohon ampun wahai kanda


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hUc9UBziess

stress & sports

I haven't written quite some time......too busy perhaps....
I become so stressful lately due to my correction progress....
I try to overcome this stress through sport activities....like badminton or futsal....
I feel so great every Tuesday nite.....the day that I really waiting for everyweek.....
enjoy the video:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R5E34XzxrAM

My wife also loves sports as well...but focusses on aerobics.....
It is always my pleasure to allow her to do something not only good for her health..but able to release her stress as well.....
A lot of aerobics outfits available in the market...sometimes it seems too much for me....however for women......certainly.....it's ok.......luckily....she knows how to buy all the outfits accordingly......
She has few friends actively involved in aerobics everyweek.....and...all her aerobics gangs are women...certainly........however.....there are still T&C need to be followed as a muslim......of course.......especially in the outfits chosen......and proudly....she always meets my expectation as her beloved hubby........
Errr...what about others??? It doesn't matter....I'm not answerable for them.....
What is the good things about aerobics??
For sure...it is good for cardio......
enjoy the video :
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Az6GWdTtUBA